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Will


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it's a thread for all of your problems, wot ever they are, i'll try and help and if there really bad PM me any time.

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I have quite a big problem...


 


 i like this guy for personal reasons im saying his name is *John. ok.. well i liked john for a while, we were great mates and i really really liked him. couple of months ago he said he liked me to, and he wanted to kiss me. so i kissed him. he got a new girlfriend days after i kissed him. and i felt so empty. i went out with ryan, it ended , john finished with his new girlfriend and asked me to kiss him again. i said no...and then today i found out he is still with the girl, he was gunna cheat on her with me!



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that is quite big, they might of had an argument so he tried to kiss you to get back at her. but ask him wot happened so he isn't trying to cheat on her

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that's a problem...
well maybe he's trying to make you jealous, I don't know.. talk to him, sort this out someway

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Do you really think i should talk to him? what if he hates me after..

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well if he hates you after it he's not much of a friend, but try and talk to him. ignor the subject talk about... anny thing and see how he acts

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i dont understand what u meen "ignore the subject talk about...anny thing and see how he acts"

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him trying to kiss you

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so , you think i should just ask him about it?

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no, talk about which ever but don't metion the atempted kiss. just see how he acts round you, if he's nervous, edgy,wot ever just don't talk about the kiss

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ive already talked to him about stuff, and hes acting like everything is great and nothing has happend...thats what gets to me

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oh, well do the same to him and see how he acts

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what good will that do tho? i will still feel awful....maybe i should talk to him about why he would want to kiss me when he has his girlfriend...

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do wot feels best then

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Hi Hannah.


I think it may help if you can be sure how you really feel about him. If you do really like kissing him but are uncomfortable with him seeing a girlfriend at the same time, let him know when he makes a move on you again and possibly decline kissing him anymore until he has made up his mind who he wants to be loyal too.


If you don't feel as much as you first thought or if he is uncomfortably pushy and you feel you are kissing him without much feeling, just stop. That is okay and you can always change your mind later.


If you like kissing him and don't mind him having a girlfriend, you may want to think about how that will make you, him and his girlfriend feel if it goes on any longer or if she finds out.


I know you will do what is best because you are smart.


 


Tess



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i'd go with tess, she's good at this stuff

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Thanks tess , both you and will have been great help, i will tell him strait that im really uncomfy with the idea of him haveing a girlfriend if hes wanting to kiss me too. he should respect us girls more.

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...and guys love women who know their own minds.

-- Edited by ModernMonkey at 16:40, 2004-09-13

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they seem that way don't they? but that's half the blokes for you

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Theg uy i like has accused me of thinking to much as if its a bad thing and he's also said that our minds are complicated...their only complicated because the only people who understand them is our selves



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"Theg uy i like has accused me of thinking to much as if its a bad thing and he's also said that our minds are complicated...their only complicated because the only people who understand them is our selves"
You should have said, 'That is not an accusation but a compliment. Thank you!'

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but i don't even understand myself some times, you should of said that, he couldn't answer back

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damn i should have said those

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I'm so sorry, I am
I can't come for a whil, some days, maybe a week, I'm sorry, I can't talk about it now, just some severe mother trouble, big ones, I'm sorry
Love you all

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Take care PM. And if you get a chance to share anything that is worrying you, please do so. We are all here for you.


 


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