have a problem? talk here

Will · Member

RE: have a problem? talk here

puremorning · Member

well.... I don't have too much time to liste to her, cos I have lots of homework, but sh'e annoied of my program and she keeps telling me to change it, and I tell her to let me srudy (my study is precioud to her), so for the moment she didn't scream that much, but no computer, now I'm using it for schoool

venusvenus · Member

We would all like to help you with this, but maybe some professional help would be better, are there any child helplines?? There are free ones where the call doesnt show up on the bill either

Will · Member

you could, but wot happens if her mum calls the re-dial? my sister did that once, or you could do it on a friends or your mobile. but i'd go with clo on this

venusvenus · Member

It wouldn't make sense Meg that the helplines would set up ghost call mode and still make it possible to redial.

Defeats the object really

puremorning · Member

dunno.....
helplines... doesn't sound to "good".. hmm... never actually thought about it, don't know any numbers, don't know.... anyway things have seemed to be fine with her for a while now... dunno how long it will last (from my experience less than a week).. but.... if I managed to survive until now, i'll manage to survive from now on
Thankyou for trying to help me.. I'll consider the helpline

Will · Member

i omly kno english ones. on my phone, if you can't be bothered ringing the number, you press this button that sez redial, my mum rang her friend before and after, i rang a help line, i was in it. but ring a friend afterwards, then you can dodge that bullet.

puremorning · Member

thankyou

Hannah_Molko · Moderator

i have a friendship problem

My friends sara and Kayley arnt talking to eachother because kayley (my "bestfriend") called her fat and has been saying she hates sara,...so we're all forced to take sides right? Heather and Nicola are with sara and we all knew they would take her side.. and clare has taken kayleys, we all knew she would. and now theres me..stuck in the middle...and i'm planning to take Saras side because kayley has been makeing fun of me (she doesnt know shes doing it but she knows i feel strongly about what shes makeing fun of..its hard to explain) and shes really distant and doesnt act as if shes my "best friend"...but if i take saras side and they make friends...Kayley will hate me.. im so confused

Will · Member

that sounds bad, hhmmm, it's hard. but is she a forgive and forget person?

Hannah_Molko · Moderator

i think so, well, i'll find out in like...an hour..

Will · Member

how did it go?

venusvenus · Member

quote:
Originally posted by: Hannah_Molko
so we're all forced to take sides right?

No you aren't in fact it is the worst thing you can do. Yes to be a good friend you should be there for them but this is petty and wouldn't you rather be neutral and take a backseat whilst they get all this silltness out of their system?

Otherwise you'll take someones side and you could lose the other friend and months down the line they'll make friends and there you are with "Betrayal" over your head

Hannah_Molko · Moderator

aww...**** clo, i wish you had told me sooner.. Kayley and me arnt best mates any more. she and clare are their own group and then theres me hez sara and nicola, i feel so damn awful for what i said today, i feel so two faced and bitchey and im so angry at myself *hits self*

venusvenus · Member

Don't worry.

It'll mull over even if she stayed mad with you you shouldn't worry now what is done is done. No you've learned, the hard way I'm afraid...

The only way I knew that before was from my own experience, everything is fine now but I'm better off knowing how to deal with similar situaution, as they'll happen all your life

UNFORNATELY!!!!!!!!

Hannah_Molko · Moderator

ok